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2012年9月30日

中秋節

一年一度的中秋節
今年選擇在家裡舉行


早上先去Costco採購肉&生菜
以為裡面人會很多,但其實大家應該都已經買好了吧(笑)

下午回家就開始切菜來做沙拉的準備





然後擺盤
每次家裡有客人要來都會弄得好盛大XD





















紅酒也是不可或缺的~

然後就是等客人的來臨























恩? 怎麼只有沙拉.....?

因為中秋節就是要烤肉阿!!!!!

不過是有點另類的烤肉
實際上是"煎肉"
在陽台上用烤盤把肉烤烤煎煎再拿進屋裡
味道就不會很重呢~!!!

這樣一盤盤的把肉扛進餐廳
吃的真的好飽!!!!





















 再加上有前菜的湯,麵包,沙拉
根本就是full course大餐了!!!!




 
 






















還有水果&甜點
吃的真的好飽~~~~


這次約了爸爸小時候的兒時玩伴跟奶奶
奶奶以前就是看著他們長大的
聽著他們講以前的故事好有趣~

奶奶今天也吃好多,還跟著我們喝紅酒了!!!!
最近奶奶精神也很不錯,雖然有點睡不好
不過身體都還很硬朗,讓我們也很放心
以後希望可以多多待他去看看沒去過的地方
吃吃他以前沒有吃過的

晚上看到月亮也是超級亮的
還好颱風走了 整個萬里無雲呢!!!!!


大家中秋節快樂喔~


  

2012年9月11日

Let It Be















There is always a saying that communication is the most importance thing when you interact with others....
However, when someone doesn't listen to what you say; only using their own judgment, or only listen to what they want to hear, what's the meaning of communication then?

A: This is what I mean to say....I really don't know what you're talking about
B: You don't have to say it anymore, you know what I'm talking about
A: No I really don't
B: No more explanation, you're always challenging me
A: ........

Is this call communication?


Or....


B: Did you hear anything from her about she having a bf?
A: no, I don't know
B: really? or you're not just telling us?
A: no, I don't know
B: ok, you know it, but you are just not telling us
A: .......


Ok, this may really be a case where A knows the truth and not telling B,
But from words description, we don't know the emotion of A & B.
In this case, A really has no idea about someone's bf or not
The core problem is trust.

If "trust" is not built betwe